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Do you know how to succeed at flirting? Many of the same moves work for on line flirting that work for hometown flirting because all dating begins with successful flirting.Here’s how to pull it off.

Flirting is an art form that requires oozing confidence without being too arrogant but, if you go too far, she may label you as a slimy character. If you don’t go far enough, she may not be curious enough to go further. So how do you achieve that point half way between wanted and rejected and do it onlinewithout face to face eye contact or body language?

Your only means of contact is a computer, internet connection, and maybe a membership in an onlinedating site, right? So, how can this be done?

Try these 6 magical tips and you’ll have success.

1. Use humor! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her want to speak to you again. Flirting is supposed to be playful, not life and death surgery so use your sense of humor. No off-color jokes or innuendo’s please!

2. You are all man! Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life and feel good about themselves. You need to transmit your “feel good about myself” factor. An optimistic and self assured attitude attracts females like pollen attracts bees.

3. Compliment her and do it often and do it sincerely. Nothing opens doors like accentuating her strengths. But, don’t overdo this. Find something about her that she will recognize is a real compliment because she knows it fits her. Do this and she’ll want to spend more time with you, and, if she pays you a compliment accept it with a sincere “thank you”. Do not try to be Mr. Humble! That’s too wimpy!

4. Are you really listening to her? Pay close attention to what she Saysand ask interesting questions. She will reveal much of herself in what sheStates so get her to open up and talk about herself by asking lots of questions. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. The “Listen Factor” works wonders!

5. Keep Your lust to yourself buddy! Flirting does not include being explicit or becoming rude if the lady isn’t responding to your suggestive overtures. If she isn’t interested in going down that path, take the hint. Change the subject or move on to the next prospect if you must but, If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably reconsider your dating goals. The salesperson’s rule is : Quit when you get seven No’s. They are not going to buy! What are you selling and how are you selling it? Got it?

6. Always dash off a short email or text message after each exchange with your prospective date. This ranks right up there with sending a “Thank You” note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting. It shows you are a sensitive guy. You are a sensitive guy, right?

Finally, and most important of all, do not be a phony when using these tips to your advantage. Most women have intution that’ll zero in on you and dump you like yesterday’s newspaper! Be honestly sincere when you use these tips. You’ll have the edge in your on line dating and maybe you will find your real soul mate. If not, you will surely have lots of fun trying!

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