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The key to getting a man’s attention is confidence. Have you ever been at a party and seen that one girl that the men just can not keep their eye’s off of? Have you thought to yourself, (and you know you have), she is not even that pretty? What does she have that I don’t? The answer; self-confidence.

A woman who presents herself openly and confidently is irresistible to men. This woman smiles with genuine interest, laughs openly. She is witty and Speakswith intelligence. She is driverse and does not seem to be “putting on a show”,Tiny secret for you…. She is!

Even the most shy and withdrawn person can learn easy steps to gaining the attention of men and increasing self-confidence. You must first remember that in this day it is perfectly acceptable and generally appreciated for a woman to make the first move on man. There are acceptable ways of doing so, without looking desprate.

1. Remember that the worst thing that a person can state is no! Although this little little word is much dreaded, there are always going to be other options. So if it happens, get over it and move on!

2. Always remember to smile. A genuine smile makes a person approachable and it tends to be contagious.

3. Start with a simple hello. Forget all the cheesy pick-up lines or scenarios that “are guaranteed to work” Start by saying hello and introduce yourself.

4. Relax! This is probably the most important part of making the first move, if you’re nervous it will show. A Littlebit of nerves is ok, but again the worst that can happen is for the man to say he is not interested.

5. Let the conversation flow. Asking questions is a good way to get to know someone, but don’t interrogate the poor man. Remember that every question you ask you should also answer yourself.

6. Be positive. You don’t need to inform the man you just met that you grandmother has cancer of the arm, or that you just got fired from your job. Act like you’re on top of the world.

7. If the conversation has gone well do not be afraid to offer your number/email, again the worst that can happen is they won’t call/write.

8. You should also remember to dress comfortably, chose and outfit that makes YOU feel sexy. Low cut tops and short dresses are not always the best choice for dressing sexy, and they may give off the wrong message. Choose an outfit that compliments your body type and lets you move comfortably.

There are also a few things you should never do when making a first move:

- Don’t act like a stuck up snob. You are no worse or no betterthan anyone else in the room (or world for that matter)

- Don’t offer sex or any sexual act. (Unless you want that and only that!)

- Don’t Brag. It is OK to point out youraccomplishments and be proud but you are not going for the Nobel prise here.

- Don’t look desperate. Avoid stating that you’ve been single for a year (or four), and if you do tell them this make it sound positive.

Confidence is an easy role to play, you just need to know that you’re a warm, intelligent human being and always remember that any man would be lucky to have you in his life.

Don’t forget to practice and have fun, because there are plenty of men out there, and no matter you size, shape, color or social status; Confidence will always be irresistible to men.